Soacial economic factors in Kenya greatly contribute to the desired choice of the number of children that a typical Kenyan couple can have. Most parents would prefer to have a family which is easy to provide for their needs without staining them because of the increased cost of living among Kenyans which has led to increase in prizes of basic family requirements. These factors include;

The peoples culture

Culture is a way of life of a people and it influences the practices carried out among the members of the society. Some Kenyan cultures promote the idea of couples having a very big family which is also a sign of a person’s wealth. Example is the luhya culture which had men believe that having many children is a show of might and leadership ability.

Religion

Religion also greatly affects the choice of a family size. For instance, some religions support the teachings in genesis where people were told to multiply and fill the earth. The followers thereby try to achieve the teaching literally. Some denominations and religions do not also advocate for the use of modern methods of contraception such as the Catholic Church which does not advocate for use of condoms.

Marriage age

The age at which Kenyan women get married also contributes to the number of children that they can bear before they reach menopause. Due to women empowerment and education, most women get married late and this only allows them to have a few children before they stop bearing anymore. Areas in the country where teenage pregnancies are high have a high number of children in a family.

Health policy and facilities

The Kenyan government has of late been providing free maternal health care, however the facilities to facilitate this program are limited and hence the services are not convenient. Infant mortality has decreased meaning that the number of children a woman can bear is guaranteed unlike previously where infant deaths were high. With proper health care, Kenyans can now choose the size of the family which they need to have.

It is therefore evident that the said socio economic factors play an important role in determining the size of families in Kenyan households.

 

Heartbreaks are aspects of a social twist that we are all vulnerable to as Kenyans. Many at times we are nursing emotional wounds caused by someone we held dear.  Someone once said that true love never ran a smooth course. Well, sometimes a “rough course” is even beyond what some of us go through.

Miresh,  a fresh graduate from the School of Dentistry in Kenya, only knows too well what a heartbreak is. She had dated her boyfriend, now her ex throughout her 4 campus years. She had even introduced Ibrahim to her parents and siblings despite him having a different religious background.  Miresh was a Christian, firmly round in a Christian way of life while Ibrahim was a Muslim. There nascent love life in Kenya had blossomed into an enviable combination of friendship and love. Not once in their campus were they crowned “Couple of the year”

After school, Miresh got a job in Naivasha town in Kenya while Ibrahim remained in Nairobi city in Kenya, still looking for a job.  3 months of working in Naivasha without seeing her boyfriend, Miresh decided to go visit her boyfriend. She figured out that it was more romantic to surprise him with her visit especially now that it was the Valentines weekend in Kenya. Miresh found her way to the mens hostels where Ibrahim had sought refuge at a friend’s room. Before Miresh could knock on the door, Ibrahim came out with a towel wound on his waist. Her guess was that he was headed for a night time shower. She tightly hugged her boyfriend, whom she had dearly missed and shoved the door so as to enter into the room with her boyfriend by her side.

Miresh could not believe what she saw! There was a lady trying to pull the sheets to hide her nudity. Condom wrappers were carelessly tossed on the floor, and the room reeked of alcohol and something else she presumed to be bhang.

“Baby, Lemmie explain. It is……”

Before Ibrahim could finish his statement, Miresh smacked his lips shut. She threw a little valentine’s card she had bought on her way and shut the door behind her. She walked to the Easy Coach head offices on Haile Selassie Avenue in Nairobi city and boarded the next bus to Naivasha. She could not believe her boyfriend of almost 5 years had been cheating on her…and worse still she had caught him pants down.

Like Miresh, we are all faced with such situations in our day to day life in Kenya. The best advice in how to deal with heartbreak is “Get busy”. Occupy your mind with lots of stuff and this will help you to forget, even though for a short while, your aching heart. Look for new hobbies and indulge in them. Make and meet friends and avoid being in lonely places.

Second advice is “Share”. Talk about it with a friend. Do not let the pain eat you up inside. A problem shared is a problem solved. Be careful not to overdo it though. If you live whining about your ex and how much he hurt you, trust me you will not forget them.

Third thing is, do not maintain contact. This is advice especially to the ladies. Men have their way with words! So once you are decided on moving on, do not reply to those texts and do not answer those calls. A single reply always takes you back to his arms as undeserving as he may be.

Make new friends once you are sure you are not dealing with the pain of heartbreak. A new relationship always does its magic- provided it is not a rebound relationship. You will get to learn that there are good people out there and your earlier encounter was just one of those proverbial frogs.

Honeymoon is very essential to newly weds.There are idyllic honeymoon destinations in Kenya which have unique essentials such as beautiful sand beaches with clear water,complete privancy,romantic settings,picture views,sumptuous beds,fine dinning and other luxury packages that will make your honeymoon memorable.

Msambweni Beach House

Its located in Msambweni,Mombasa and its perfect honeymoon spot with serene surrounding,interesting activities such as snorkeling,scuba diving,dolphin and whale watching,motorized waterspots,sailing in local fishing dhow or canoe,playing golf and mountain biking,fireplace chat and deeps sea fishing.It creates a feeling that reflects Kenya’s heritage and offers unique atmosphere for newly weds

Diani Reef

Lies in South Kenya Coastline in Mombasa.It carries magic to spice up your married life such as enjoying breathtaking views and natural beauty of the surrounding and also pristine white sand beach and turquoise ocean,Kenyan wildlife gameparks.

Pinewood Beach Resort

Lies on the unspoiled shores of Indian Ocean.Offers unique services and many interesting activities for couples to enjoy,relax on the beach,swim in the beautiful swimming pool,enjoy fine dining and serene environment

Swahili Beach Resort

Its located on Diani Beach in Mombasa.Offers a perfect combination of relaxation,romance and privancy.One can take a walk on the beautiful white sand beach,swim in the colourful pool,enjoy unique Swahili and world-class dinning.

Almanara Beach Resort

Almanara Resort is located on Diani Beach in Kwale District.Its ideal destination for privancy,romance and luxury.Offers a wide range of activities such as surfing,scuba diving,swimming,snorkeling and a complete island experience.

Kinodo Kwetu

Its located on South Coastline beach.Features beautiful natural surroundings,tranquil atmosphere,refreshing moments and magial effect.

The Cove Tree Houses

Located 12 km from Diani Town.Its a site to enjoy panaroma views of the coastline on a boat cruise and other activities such as kite surfing,diving,snorkeling and deep sea fishing.

Southern Palms Beach Resort

Its located on Diani Beach 35 km South of Mombasa.The resort has extraordinary blend of Arabic and traditional Swahili architecture,tropical gardens,coconut palms,beautiful swimming pool,serene environment.

Ocean Beach Kenya

Its located 2 km North of Malindi Town on a beautiful sandy beach.

Offers great facilities such as Morjana Spa,gourmet restaurant,swimming pool,Jacuzzi and other outdoor activities.

Baobab Beach Resort

Located in Diani Beach .Has interesting activities and fine dining

Shela House

Its most dramatic location with steps onto the sands and striking pool and offers trip on traditional Swahili dhow.

Manda Bay

Located in Manda Island,Lamu.Has perfect panorama views.

Leopard Beach Resort

Has beautiful scenery and wonderful services,you will experience glamour as you treat yourselves to the resort’s spa services.

The Majils Resort

Located on Manda Island,Lamu.Its a perfect blend of Swahili and western cultures.

Sandies Tropical Village

Its located in Malindi offering water sports,archery,table tennis,evening animation program.

Voyager Beach Resort

Located in Mombasa,and offers great facilities,lush tropical garden,pristine beach with sparkling water.

Alfajiri Villas

Saruni Samburu

Located on top of Kalama mountains,7 km from Northern border of Samburu National Reserve.

Naibor camp

Located in Masai Mara

20.Joy’s camp

Site for romance,adventure and wildlife viewing.

 

Going on a first date with a person is often very challenging with each party trying to impress one another.The kind of words you tell to your mate on the first day really matters alot and for a lady,the folloing are some of the characters you should avoid when going out with a man on the first date.

He Likes Talking About Sex

Avoid a man that will always talk of how he will want to please you and make you feel great on the first day.The picture being portrayed here is that there are high chances of him being a hit and run guy.Ladies should avoid such men and go for guys that are patient with them and are willing to wait and give the relationship time to grow.

Talks About His EX

Such kind of men are simply not have recovered fully from their heartbreaks and can dissapoint you at any time of their life.It is good for one to keep past life to themselves and avoid telling it to their dates as they wont play any normal part in helping the relationship to have a good foundation for growth.

Has a criminal background

A person that reveals their criminal backgrounds on the first day are not orthy of keeping and that should give a lady a chance to have no reason to continue with the relationship.There are high chances that such guys are not safe especially when criminal information is on the rise in the country.

Family Upbringing

A man that treats bad their mothers and even sisters is very dangerous to keep and should be avoided at all costs.Go for a person that has good interaction skills with the family especially the female counterparts.

Finances

No lady will wish to date a guy that is broke and has no signs of working hard for a bright future.Ladies should go for a person that has good jobs and those that are well behaved by being responsible when it comes to finances.

Kenya is of the East Africa country that consists of various tribes with Bantu, Nilotic, Cushitic and Semitic origin. Some of these tribes from the same origin speak similar language and in one point understand each other. These tribes include:

• Embu

They are Bantu whose territory in Kenya is situated to the south- east region of Mt. Kenya.

 

• Bukusu

This is a subgroup of the larger Luhya Bantu tribe. They originally occupied Mt. Elgon slopes.

 

• Bajuni

Mainly found along the northern coast of Kenya near Somalia.

• Dahalo

This is an almost extinct tribe that live among the coastal tribes

• Aweer

Also called the Boni tribe, are found along the border of Kenya and Somalia.

• Kalenjin

They dominate the Rift Valley of Kenya, and consist of many related groups

 

• Isukha

This is a sub-tribe of the Luhya tribe that dominate Kakamega region.

 

• Kamba

This is a Bantu speaking group occupying the east-central parts of Kenya.

• Kikuyu

This is the largest tribe in Kenya. They mainly live in Central highlands.

• Kore

This tribe is nearly extinct and live in Lamu.

• Kisii

These are Bantu speakers that occupy the southern shores of Lake Victoria.

• Kuria

These are found in southern areas of Kenya.

• Luo

These are nilotic speakers the occupying the east shores of Lake Victoria.

• Luhya

This is a large tribe consisting of 18 sub-tribes that occupy the west part of Kenya.

• Maragoli

They are part of the Luhya large tribe.

• Masai

These are semi-nomadic tribe that has conserved their culture. They occupy the southern part of the Rift Valley in Kenya.

• Marama

Form part of the Luhya tribe and speak Wanga language.

• Meru

They occupy the north-eastern part of Mt. Kenya.

• Mijikenda

This group consist of nine smaller tribes. They occupy the coastal parts of Kenya.

 

• Orma

This tribe occupy the north eastern part of Kenya near Tana river.

• Ogiek

Sometimes called Okiek. They have started speaking Agikuyu and Masai languages

• Pokomo

Occupy the plains of Tana River.

• Rendille

Are nomadic camel herders occupying Kaisut desert.

• Somali

They migrate from Somolia

• Sengwer

This tribe occupies the central rift valley of Kenya.

• Samburu

They live in northern Kenya and is closely related to Masai.

• Suba

This is one of the smallest tribes in Kenya occupying Mfungano and Rusinga Islands.

• Swahili

They occupy mainly the coastal region of Kenya.

• Yiaku

This is small tribe that is nearly extinct. They mainly live near Mt. Kenya.

• Taveta

They occupy the south central part of Kenya between Mt. Kilimanjaro and Tsavo National Park.

• Tachoni

This is a sub-group of the Luhya tribe.

• Taita

They originally occupy Taita Taveta region.

 

 

 

Kenyan ladies have for a long time been noted to be hard to get more especially because men are not displaying the type of qualities they want. However, it has come to the realization that majority of men have gone ahead to better their chances of winning the trust of ladies by applying the following qualities.

Being well groomed

A Kenyan lady will want a man who she will feel being more comfortable around with. Men that are well groomed will always make a lady feel proud to introduce them when she is around her friends. Grooming however, does not mean that a man spends so much in fashion. It simply implies that a man should ensure that he looks well by having well maintained hair styles, brushed shoes and dressed in a more official manner.

Confidence

This quality is very essential as it gives a woman a feeling of relief being around you. Furthermore, confidence makes a woman get the impression that the man believes in himself giving her the urge and curiosity to continue staying around you.

Be naughty and Funny

Kenyan ladies want a man that will create jokes and make her laugh. Ladies hate to be with a guy that is always serious and not having the will to create room for jokes and games. Men should be more creative and find more games and fun activities that will trigger ladies to laugh. Furthermore, be sensitive to her feelings and know when to crack jokes and definitely you will win her over.

Hardworking and Stable

None of the Kenyan ladies will want to be near a man that is poor and cannot afford to meet for her needs. Show a Kenyan lady that you are carrying your manly duties by supporting and taking good care of her. Being stable especially in financial matters is very important as it gives the lady the security and feeling of protection that they need from men.

Be busy

Kenyan ladies are more attracted to a guy that is rare and always focused on his projects. A lady will not wish to be around a guy that is always idle and has nothing to do. Being busy will eventually make a lady develop the curiosity of wanting to know more about you and what you do. She will be the one chasing after you.

Attention

Ladies love getting the attention of men more especially the one she loves. Wishing her a good morning, lunch and good knights will make a lady feel that you are actually caring and that is what will attract her to you. Always be there when she needs you and that will be the break through towards winning her heart.

 

There is a particular advert on our Kenyan television stations that has overtime caught my eye. “Dial *699*1# to get your partner”

If you are looking for love in Kenya, you will apparently get leads by dialling that number. Well I am not sure how the whole thing goes, but I guess they randomly match you up with someone who has texted their number to the same site, the catch being that the couple is not of the same sex- I think!

There are very many dating sites in Kenya, Kenyan Cupid being the most famous. This dating site in Kenya encourages single people looking for partners to log in and interact with likeminded people over email and instant messengers. Once you have identified your catch, you can step up communication to phone calls or even arrange to meet up. For the lucky few, they meet potential spouses that way but others are not so lucky. People could register to the site only to use and dump you and woe unto you if you land on such. I have heard stories of people who have met online and once you meet up in person, you experience life beyond your imagination. There is a movie that showcases the very cons of meeting people online. It goes by the title, “The wife I met online”.  A guy named Bryant meets a lady named Georgia online and they eventually get married after a couple of months, only for Georgia to kill Bryant’s workmate and attempt to kill Bryant by stabbing him with a knife. She then runs away and changes her name. At the end of the movie, she is on the phone with another potential husband! There are many psychos out there, and in as much as this was just a movie, take care.

I personally do not advocate for this kinds of hook ups in Kenya. I think you are safer meeting someone, getting to fully know them and then decide on getting into in a relationship or not. With this caution, it is likely that you will get to know your partner fully. Even if it takes time, at least you are not in for surprises. If you are looking for a partner in Kenya, I suggest you go out, make and meet friends. Confining yourself to four walls will most certainly not help the situation. You can attend parties, weddings and even church functions in Kenya. Chances are, someone is also looking for a match up partner in Kenya, and as such you will seize the double coincidence opportunity.

Finally, it is always good to pray, for those who believe in a higher power. Such matters of the heart need care and caution. These are just the few tips about dating in Kenya. Now you know the precautions to take while in your search for the right partner in Kenya. 

Dating in Kenya has been recognized to be a very vital element in every Kenyan’s life. At some point in your life as a Kenyan, you feel like you need to get someone to complement your life. Living single in Kenya is never a calling but a choice that people in Kenya make. Dating is the best avenue through which you can find a life partner in Kenya, connect and share the best moments in life even if you have not known the other person since your childhood years. The aspect of dating in Kenya works magic in people’s lives; that perhaps explains why it has been diversified across platforms and now we can see a plethora of dating sites in Kenya over the internet today.

Why Kenyans are opting for online dating

Online dating in Kenya has become the in-thing in the modern day dating.  Many people in Kenya are born shy, and that again is not their choice; it is not uncommon that you will come across a man in Kenya who cannot confront a girl and start talking to her in a passionate and romantic manner. The part of Kenya population preferring online dating is what is making the rest of Kenya to start dating on the internet. Kenyans practicing online dating are guided by the perception that dating on the internet is harmless, less intrusive and also pretty much exciting since you get to chat and talk with people from across the globe.  If you are into online dating in Kenya, here are internet dating techniques which will help you find the person you are looking for. These are the tips of building your online profile in Kenya to succeed well in online dating:

Do not exaggerate things on your profile

Women in Kenya normally love smart; this however does not mean you over exaggerate things overboard on your online profile.  Remember that, when you are dating online in Kenya, your profile acts as your marketer. Therefore, try to ensure that you are sounding simple but real.  Adding some hobbies and best interests into your profile online in Kenya will go a long way to boost your appeal in the eyes and minds of the people who come across it.

Be honest on your online profile

Honesty in Kenya has always been the best virtue. For instance, if you have a passion for movies, music, computers or such-like things, you should add them to your profile to succeed in online dating in Kenya. A little tweak on the sides even helps to make things much better. Women in Kenya love creative men and therefore, you have to show an element of creativity when you are coming up with your profile online.

Have some photos on your online profile

Having photos on your online dating profile in Kenya is perhaps the most important of these internet dating techniques available to Kenyans. Photos in Kenya help the people who visit your profile to understand and appreciate whom you are. You can go ahead and add some graphical enhancements just to demonstrate how creative you can be.

Keep your dating profile updated each day

If you want to create interests from either men or women in Kenya, you need to make sure that your profile is updated. This is much similar to blogging or site development in Kenya. You have to yearn to deliver fresh content every other time.

These are some of the main internet dating techniques in Kenya which might help you better reach out to interested parties across Kenya.  Dating on the internet across Kenya has been largely diversified in the past couple of years.  Perhaps it is that best time you also tapped into this unrelenting potential of online dating sites in Kenya. This online dating habit in Kenya is mostly common in Nairobi dating styles. You can meet your partner in Kenya the easy and smart way, try online dating in Kenya.